The Cynic Says……

Seriously…. Brains are fucking hot… There’s nothing I dig more than a chick who has an opinion and isn’t afraid to express that opinion even if it’s not popular. Furthermore, if she has reasonable fact to back up that opinion, that’s obviously best. I love it when a girl has something other to talk about than her bad hair day, breaking a nail, her cute new outfit, or any other stupid shallow materialistic topic. I mean, it’s ok to talk about the aforementioned things on occasion. If you just bought some clothes that you thought are really cute, that’s fine but damn don’t make your life revolve around having the cutest clothes. There’s a lot more to life than looking good. If I can’t sit down and have an intelligent discussion about music, religion, politics and the like, then I’m just not going to be interested in you. I can’t be interested in a girl solely because she’s physically attractive. Besides, when you’re both 50 those looks aren’t going to mean shit anymore (because they won’t be there). Then what are you left with? A stupid bitch who has no redeeming qualities. Hence, I don’t consider stunning good looks to be a truly redeeming quality since 1) they’re not permanent, and 2) they don’t make conversations interesting. Brains are a redeeming quality, however. Think about it… an ugly girl can still be a hell of a lot of fun to be around if she has brains, wit, a sense of humor, and a spine. Hell, if you’re not overly shallow you’ll probably forget that she’s not fucking Tara Reid. After all, the reason guys don’t like to date girls who aren’t terribly hot is because of what their friends will think. It’s like some sort of testosterone-induced state of stupidity where guys think that life is about having the hottest girlfriend, the nicest car, nicest house, loudest stereo in his car, and the most money. Newsflash! You can have all that shit and still never be happy. So yeah, while you might think I’m self-centered, I live my life to make myself happy. Period. If I make someone else happy along the way, great… Don’t get me wrong, I like doing things for other people if I feel as though they deserve it. But unlike some people I know, my life doesn’t revolve around being perceived in a positive light by the public at large. I don’t care if you like me. I don’t care if you envy me… I don’t care if you think the girl I’m with is hot. I don’t care what your opinion is of me not having a car… If what I have makes me happy, then who gives a shit about what you think? Unfortunately, the majority of people these days are too concerned with what those around them think of them. It’s no wonder the majority are never truly happy… There’s more to life than what other people think. After all, only you can make yourself happy. Write that down.