The Cynic Says……

To be blunt, people who are overly needy annoy the shit out of me…. First, you have girls who “need” a boyfriend or “need” someone in their lives all the time to make their life “complete” or some such bullshit. I hate to break it to you, but you shouldn’t need another person in your life to be completely happy. If you’re basing your happiness on other people, then you’re never going to be happy. Perhaps you should try making yourself happy to start with? I mean, I could never in a million years be with someone who wasn’t already happy with themself and their life before I came into it. Girls like this amuse me because they act as if they’re so lost if they’re single for any appreciable amount of time… as if their life is over when their boyfriend breaks up with them or whatever. In most cases, the dumb bitch will stay with her piece of shit loser drug-addicted boyfriend who beats the shit out of her just because she thinks the alternative (being “alone”) is far more horrible and dealing with the bullshit is worth at least having someone around. Then again, I think subconsciously it’s another way for them to get attention and pity. Because everyone pities the girl whose boyfriend treats her like shit and beats her. And that brings me to another pet peeve on the same sort of subject… I hate people who “need” attention all the time. Guys and girls are both guilty of this, but in different ways. Girls are the most annoying about it, though. I know girls who literally go apeshit if they’re not the center of attention all the time. If she comes into contact with another female who she determines is “threatening”, the insults start.. “oh, she’s so trashy”… “that outfit looks horrible”, “her hair looks like shit”.. “she looks like a skank” and so on. Then they go and compliment a horribly ugly bitch saying that she’s “pretty” when we all know damn good and well the only reason she feels like she can compliment them is because she doesn’t view the other girl(s) as a “threat” to her “territory”. They get needy when they’re already in a relationship as well… God forbid your fucking boyfriend wants to spend a couple of days away from you! It’s not the end of the world, ya know. Trust me, sometimes we just want a couple of days to ourselves to sit back, play video games with the guys, get drunk, and do whatever.. none of which includes getting our dicks sucked by another girl. If we do cheat on you, you probably deserved it. Girls do some of the most asinine shit to get attention, too. I’ve known of girls claiming they’re bi and even going so far as hitting on other girls just so that people will notice her and pay attention to her. As a matter of fact, I recall being told a story about a particular female who went to meet a guy and ended up spending most of the night hitting on his sister and claiming she was bi (when she most definitely is not). To an extent her little ploy worked until the guy figured out that she was only hitting on his sister so that he would get all frustrated and try harder to get her attention. In doing so, she gets what she wants.. EVERYONE’S attention. The girl, becuase she’s hitting on her, and the guy’s because she’s ignoring him and hitting on a chick (and we know how most guys fantasize about 2 girls). But seriously, it’s just fucking pathetic when people base their entire self-worth on how much attention they get from other people and on what other people’s opinions of them are. That’s the one big pet peeve I have about girls… the simple fact that most of them are overly jealous and competitive with other women. To get pissy over something as fucking stupid as another girl getting more attention than you and/or possibly being better-looking than you is every bit as childish as me getting pissy because someone has a nicer car. When I meet a girl who doesn’t fall into the aforementioned categories, then that’s a girl I might consider dating provided she doesn’t annoy me in other ways.

OK, in all fairness, guys get needy for attention too. How else would one explain the expensive flashy clothes, nice car, expensive haircut, tattoos, jewelry, etc. We do it because we want attention from women. We don’t really give a shit about what other guys think or whether or not they envy us (although it’s nice if they do). Girls seem to do all their attention-grabbing things to grab the attention of other women and make them jealous. Girls don’t dress up to go out to attract all the guys’ attention. They do it so that they can look better than the other girls there. 90% of what guys do revolves around getting pussy. The only thing I can think of that revolves around having other guys envy us is dating a hot girl. If guys really stopped to think about how little other people care what their girlfriend looks like, then they’d be dating a lot more chubby chicks with great personalities who can actually hold down a conversation and not annoy the shit out of you. I have another tangent rant, but I’ll save that for later.. that is all for now.