The Cynic Says……

The title says it all… Girls plain and simple don’t want a guy that they can control, walk all over, train, and make their “pet” basically. They want a guy who has a strong personality and actually can stand up for himself on occasion. That’s not to say girls want to be treated like shit, but they really DON’T want to be put up on a pedestal and worshipped like some sort of goddess. They want to be treated with respect and not treated like an OBJECT. What people don’t seem to understand is that by doing things like telling them they’re beautiful everyday, buying them things, complimenting them in general all the time, telling them how you feel all the time, always agreeing with them, changing yourself to “make them happy”, you’re basically saying to them “Well, I know you wouldn’t want me on my regular merits alone, so I have to make all this effort to impress you so you’ll want me.” Telling a girl she’s beautiful everyday in and of itself is acceptable, however you should not feel as though you HAVE to tell her everyday and just because you don’t tell her for a couple of days, she’s not going to disown you/ditch you. While the girl may “give you a chance” and date you for a short time, she ends up keeping you around until finally your act wears thin and she finds someone she’s actually attracted to and gives her somewhat of a challenge. That’s just the way life goes… think about it. Which are you going to cherish more? Something that you didn’t have to work to get or something you had to bust your ass to get and keep? That’s right, the second one. Relationships are the same way.